Knowing how to communicate your sexual needs, boundaries, and desires is pivotal to a deeply fulfilling and juicy intimate relationship. Yet many couples are scared to have honest conversations about these topics because they are afraid of offending their partner or being shamed for their sexual fantasies. Relationship coaching with Amaya helps you develop the communication skills you need for emotional safety and physical connection that leaves you swooning like you did when first dating!
Why is Sexual Communication So Important For Your Relationship?
Talking about sex with your partner is far more than talking about your likes and dislikes in the bedroom. It helps you express yourself honestly without fear of judgment or criticism from your partner. The frameworks Amaya teaches you will help you in many aspects of your relationship, and will support you with the following!
Conflict resolution: Learn how to resolve conflicts and address misunderstandings before they spiral and escalate for a healthier relationship dynamic
Better Sex: Speaking your needs clearly and being open to exploration and feedback from your partner can help you have the sex life you’ve been fantasizing about!
Deeper Connection: When you feel comfortable talking to your partner about sensitive topics, you experience renewed connection and closeness that can keep your relationship thriving for years to come!
How To Overcome Challenges in Sexual Communication
Many couples face obstacles when it comes to talking about sex. These challenges may include:
Talking about sex can feel scary, and many couples feel overwhelmed and don’t know how to talk about it. That can happen for reasons that include:
Shame and Embarrassment: You may have been taught that talking about sex is bad, or never had an example of how to do it.
Fear of Rejection: You might feel scared that your partner will reject you if you share your true fantasies and desires.
Lack of Communication Frameworks: Most people have never been taught how to initiate and navigate conversations about sex in a healthy and effective way!
How Amaya Can Help You With Sexual Communication
Sex coaching with Amaya is a safe, supportive space where both singles and couples can explore their sexuality while simultaneously improving their sexual communication skills. Amaya specializes in
Creating a Safe Space: Your trust and confidentiality are the priority so you can feel comfortable sharing your desires, thoughts, and feelings without fear of shame
Uncover Your Erotic Blueprint: Having worked with 100’s of singles and couples from around the world, Amaya understands just how unique your sexual blueprint is, and helps you uncover your turn ons in a safe and judgment free environment.
Understanding Non-Verbal Cues: Learn how to recognize body cues and facial expressions to help you understand what your partner is experiencing so you can better support each other’s needs.
Fight Right: Get tools and techniques taken from the Gottman method to help you navigate conflict effectively.
Overcoming Insecure Attachment: Learn how to regulate your nervous system so that you can show up resourced to your relationship.
Modalities and Exercises
During online sex coaching sessions with Amaya, she draws from a number of modalities to help you enhance your sex life, such as:
Sex Games for Couples: Learn stress free, fun ways to engage with your partner to try new techniques for intimacy.
Mindfulness and Relaxation: Learn techniques to reduce performance anxiety so you can approach sex without fear.
Homework Assignments: Practice activities designed just for you to help you feel comfortable and empowered in the bedroom.
How Can Improved Sexual Communication Benefit Your Relationships
When couples improve their sexual communication skills, they often experience:
When you improve your sexual communication skills, you will inevitably experience
Mutual Sexual Satisfaction: Have more fun with your partner while experiencing greater pleasure and connection!
Fight Less: These skills help you fight less and repair conflict quickly
Deeper Connection To Yourself: Connect to all parts of you with love, compassion, and curiosity.
Take the Next Step Towards A Great Sex Life!
If you are ready to have great sex, better communication, and more connection in your relationship, sex coaching with Amaya is here to help you.